Even sex party regulars get nervous before orgies. If you follow these tips, you'll be in a great position to have safe and pleasurable sexual encounters.

1. Always get clear verbal consent. The number one rule is to receive explicit verbal consent from all your partners before initiating each sex act. If drinking and drug use occur at the orgy, be especially careful to look out for people who may be too impaired to give consent.

2. Reach out to the organizer directly to ask any pertinent questions and to confirm rules of consent and safety, condom usage, safe words, general party etiquette, and any specific themes or fetishes that the orgy may be encouraging.

3. Set your boundaries in advance. Before you arrive, consider what you are and are not willing to do. For example, you might want to decide if you're comfortable with BDSM or engaging in sexual acts with people of different gender identities. Think about any sex acts that seem particularly exciting to you so that you can prioritize turning those fantasies into a reality at the party.

4. Communication is key. Communicate your boundaries and desires to your sex partners before and during sex. The more open you are, the more enjoyable the experience will be.

5. Be patient. Take some time to relax and socialize. Conversational chemistry often translates to sexual chemistry, so there's a good chance you'll end up enjoying the sex more if you get to know your partners a little bit first.

6. Avoid getting too intoxicated. Orgies often feature drinking and drug use, but make sure you're not too impaired to make sensible decisions. A good trick is to alternate alcoholic drinks with a glass of water, which will also keep you well hydrated and ready to handle any marathon sex sessions.

7. Embrace a broader perspective on potential partners. Approach the event with a mindset that is more expansive than what you typically experience in conventional dating. This sex-positive atmosphere presents a fantastic chance to explore connections with individuals you might not usually consider appealing, including those with diverse body types, various genders, or unique personalities. You may uncover new attractions that enhance your regular sexual experiences.

8. Understand that rejection is a common experience. It's important not to take rejection to heart, and always respond graciously if you need to turn down someone’s advances. Remember, there will be numerous opportunities to connect with other partners, so keep your spirits high and stay open to new experiences.

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